Eighteen months is when many children in Singapore can start playgroup. But “can start” and “ready to start” are not the same thing, and every child gets there in their own time. Here are some gentle signs to look for, and some ways to help.
Signs your child may be ready
You do not need all of these. A few is a good start.
- They are curious about other children, even if they mostly watch.
- They can spend a short time away from you, with someone they know, without great upset.
- They are walking, or nearly walking, and like to explore.
- They show interest in simple songs, books or toys that do something.
- They can let you know, in their own way, when they are hungry, tired or upset.
Signs to give it a little longer
- Being apart from you is still very hard, even for short spells.
- There is a big change at home right now, such as a new baby or a move.
- Your child is unwell often or still adjusting to a new routine.
None of these mean something is wrong. They just mean a later start, or a slower settling-in, may suit your child better.
What children get from playgroup
At this age, playgroup is mostly about play: being around other children, hearing new words and songs, trying new things with their hands, and getting used to a simple daily routine. It is not about lessons or tests.
How to help your child settle
- Talk about playgroup in a cheerful, simple way before the first day.
- Start with shorter days if you can.
- Bring a small comfort item from home.
- Keep goodbyes short and warm, and always say goodbye rather than slipping away.
- Expect some tears in the first weeks. They usually ease as the place and people become familiar.
Not sure yet?
That is normal. A visit is the easiest way to see how your child reacts to a new place. Our Playgroup programme starts at 18 months, and you are welcome to book a visit with your child and ask anything.
